Life feels like too much. Too many demands, too many expectations, too many things pulling you in every direction. You feel drained. Naturally, you think: I need to do less. I need a break.
But what if that’s not the answer?
What if the weight you’re carrying isn’t from how much you have to do—but from how little of it feels like yours?
Why Everything Feels Heavy
It’s not just the workload. It’s the fact that none of it feels like you. You’re stuck in a cycle of reacting—answering emails, meeting deadlines, fulfilling obligations—checking off an endless list of things that were handed to you rather than chosen by you.
And that’s why you’re exhausted.
The Fix? Take on More—But On YOUR Terms.
If everything in your life is something you have to do, then nothing in your life feels like something you want to do.
So instead of just pushing through the grind, carve out space for something that’s yours. Read. Write. Train. Build. Create. Even if it’s just for a few minutes. Even if it seems small. Because the second you start choosing, you’re the driver.
But What If It’s More Than That?
Maybe this exhaustion isn’t just about routine. It’s burnout, anxiety, depression, or trauma. Maybe the weight you’re carrying isn’t just from external demands but from internal battles no one else can see.
If even the thought of choosing something for yourself feels impossible, that’s not a failure. It’s a sign you’re carrying something heavy—and you don’t have to do it alone.
Therapy isn’t just about motivation. It’s about understanding, processing, and finding a way forward with clarity and self-compassion.
Take the First Step
You don’t have to do this alone. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or like you’ve lost yourself in the grind, therapy can help you reclaim what matters. Reach out to Zenith Counseling today for a therapist who sees you — because healing isn’t about checking more boxes. It’s about coming home to yourself.
Ben Pham is a counselor-in-training at Zenith Counseling, dedicated to fostering personal growth and healing. Ben brings a unique blend of professional training and personal experience to his practice. He employs Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Narrative Therapy to help clients align with their core values and pursue meaningful lives. Ben is committed to providing a compassionate, judgment-free environment where clients feel understood and supported.
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